Upgrade server deps (#10017)

* remove unused apn lib and upgrade moment-recur

* upgrade validator

* upgrade got

* request -> got

* fix validation

* fix tests

* upgrade nodemailer

* fix unit tests

* fix webhook tests, upgrade express-validator (using legacy api)

* upgrade js2xmlparser

* update misc packages

* fix linting

* update packages

test/api/v3/integration/tasks/GET-tasks_user.test.js

@@ -113,10 +113,10 @@ describe('GET /tasks/user', () => {
     await user.sync();
     let initialTodoCount = user.tasksOrder.todos.length;
 
-    for (let i = 0; i < numberOfTodos; i++) { // eslint-disable-line no-await-in-loop
+    for (let i = 0; i < numberOfTodos; i++) {
       let id = todos[i]._id;
 
-      await user.post(`/tasks/${id}/score/up`);
+      await user.post(`/tasks/${id}/score/up`); // eslint-disable-line no-await-in-loop
     }
     await user.sync();